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ferran



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PostPosted: Thu Sep 25, 2008 2:33 am    Post subject: my husband is an alcoholic Reply with quote

My husband and I have been married 36 years this Saturday--- I am so miserable with his drinking and dont know how to tolerate it anymore. I have been able to deal with it but now cant seem to.
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PostPosted: Thu Sep 25, 2008 4:58 pm    Post subject: Re Reply with quote

Ferran

Greetings. Very Happy

1st, welcome to Jesusanswers.com. I am a Christian family counsellor

I fully understand your situation and inner feelings. Having seen and counseled many such couples in the past I come to realise that such drinkings could be overcome.

If you are seeking help for your husband to overcome his alocholic addiction, I need to know more about his situation and I am sure God does have a solution for you.

You can email me or post here.

God bless.
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PostPosted: Sun May 10, 2009 6:30 pm    Post subject: Re: my husband is an alcoholic Reply with quote

ferran wrote:
My husband and I have been married 36 years this Saturday--- I am so miserable with his drinking and dont know how to tolerate it anymore. I have been able to deal with it but now cant seem to.


Sounds to me like you could knock back a few cold ones. Sorta take the edge off, ya know?
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PostPosted: Fri Sep 25, 2009 10:39 pm    Post subject: Re: my husband is an alcoholic Reply with quote

ferran wrote:
My husband and I have been married 36 years this Saturday--- I am so miserable with his drinking and dont know how to tolerate it anymore. I have been able to deal with it but now cant seem to.


You need to help you husband, and talk to him not in wrath but in love, a women can change a mans heart, A kind word will turn away wrath

you cannot divorce him and marry another, You are bound to your husband as Long as he is Alive

For the woman which hath an husband is bound by the law to her husband so long as he liveth; but if the husband be dead, she is loosed from the law of her husband.

So then if, while her husband liveth, she be married to another man, she shall be called an adulteress: but if her husband be dead, she is free from that law; so that she is no adulteress, though she be married to another man.
Romans 7:2-3

if a woman shall put away her husband, and be married to another, she committeth adultery.
Mark 10:12
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PostPosted: Sat Jan 23, 2010 10:36 pm    Post subject: Reply with quote

Sometimes the situation can get out of hand..
My ex husband would drink and pass out in the bed of his truck or on the bathroom floor, its stupidity to me. He's drinking his problems away but they always come back to find him. This is a learning area for your husband but an emotional roller coaster for you. People can change but he may need help to do it. You can either live with it or you can find help for him. I feel for your situation i know its hard.
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